The HEXACO Calendar Audit
Your calendar knows you better than you do.
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textINPUT: 90 days of ICS calendar export OUTPUT (excerpt): Honesty-Humility 2.8 / 5.0 (- significant gap from self-report 4.2) Emotionality 3.1 / 5.0 (= matches self-report) eXtraversion 4.6 / 5.0 (+ above self-report 3.8) Agreeableness 3.4 / 5.0 (- below self-report 4.5) Conscientiousness 3.0 / 5.0 (- below self-report 4.8) Openness 4.3 / 5.0 (= matches self-report) LARGEST GAP: Conscientiousness. Your calendar shows 41% reactive meetings booked <24h notice. You scored yourself "very high" on planning. Pick one.
- HEXACO 6-factor model
- Big Five vs HEXACO distinctions (the Honesty-Humility axis)
- BLS American Time Use Survey methodology
- ICS calendar export format
- embedding-similarity classification
- the introspection illusion (Pronin)
- base-rate neglect when scoring yourself
If a name is unfamiliar, that's the gap. The list is the curriculum.
- 01
Export 90 days of calendar to ICS. Strip names; keep titles, durations, and event types.
bashcurl -o cal.ics 'https://calendar.google.com/calendar/ical/.../basic.ics' - 02
Classify each event into a behavioural category (focus block, reactive meeting, deep work, social, admin, exercise).
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Score each category against each HEXACO factor on a tagged rubric. Use Claude with embeddings, not vibes.
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Take the HEXACO self-report inventory once (60 items, ~12 minutes).
- 05
Compute the per-factor gap between calendar score and self-report score.
- 06
Investigate the largest gap. That is the lie you tell yourself about yourself.
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Re-run quarterly. The gap moves only if you do.
Self-report personality inventories suffer the introspection illusion: you score yourself on the trait you wish you had. Calendars are honest because they were written for logistics, not identity. Mapping calendar behaviour to HEXACO factors creates a behavioural mirror with the same axes as the self-report. Where they diverge, the calendar wins. The gap is the most actionable data you own.